John and Bessie Gonleh
Statistically, John and Bessie Gonleh should be buried somewhere in war-torn Africa. Their nearly twenty year odyssey from their home in Paynesville, a suburb of the Liberian capital of Monrovia, to the recent reunion with their children in Montgomery, Alabama, has defied every odd for survival. Perhaps most miraculously, they have emerged from their trials with their steadfast faith intact.
Both John and Bessie grew up in villages in the Liberian bush but were sent by their families to boarding schools in Monrovia. Besides teaching job skills and ingraining an affinity for western customs, the school set the stage for John’s first encounter with Christ. At the age of 16, he became a Christian, an act that defied both his family and village tradition. He met Bessie, who was raised in a Christian home, on the bus ride back to school. Though the pair felt strongly that God had brought them together, they had several children together before marrying. As was typical of Liberian men, John also had affairs with other women and fathered several children outside of his relationship with Bessie.
Their lifestyle took a dramatic change when the pastor of their local church asked John to be his helper in ministry. John truly began to live for Christ. He and Bessie married, and they did their best to pursue God’s best for their marriage and their six children: Gloria, Monica (a child born to John and another woman), twins Annie and Kou, Comfort (a cousin they adopted when her mother died in childbirth), and Chester. John owned a small construction block factory, and Bessie worked at a local bank. The family lived comfortably in an air conditioned suburban four-bedroom house, owned a car, and shopped at the local grocery store.
An announcement made by Liberian President Samuel Doe on Christmas Eve 1989 signaled the end of their idyllic life. Rebel forces had begun attacking. In the ensuing chaos, the Gonleh home, along with much of Paynesville, was burned to the ground, and John was taken by rebels to be tortured and killed. After becoming the lone survivor of a mass execution, he was miraculously reunited with his family. But the Gonlehs would spend the next fifteen years as refugees struggling to survive in an environment of disease, malnutrition, poverty, and conflict. Their riveting story is the subject of Refuge (Winepress Publishing, April 2008).
The Gonleh family saga is both tragic and inspiring. Through it all, they have clung tenaciously to their faith in God and His plan for them. They have lost three children. Chester died of a mysterious ailment shortly after they departed Paynesville. Twelve years later, Comfort was slain in an attack by Liberian mercenaries—and Annie was never heard from again after that day. Even as they grieved these losses, John and Bessie praised the Lord for preserving their remaining children and adding two others—John Jr. and Miracle—to the family.
In 2005, the family received word that their dream of emigrating to America had finally came true, but the news was bittersweet. Immigration policy would allow John and Bessie to join Monica in America, but little John Jr. and Miracle would have to remain in Africa until their parents had fulfilled the proper requirements to apply for their relocation to the US. Even as their hearts broke over the separation from their children, John and Bessie recognized God’s hand working in their circumstances. During their journey to America, the Gonlehs received a divine introduction. They met Bruce Beakley, a traveler from Houston, Texas, in the terminal at the Brussels airport. Since their first meeting, Bruce has become a devoted friend and advocate—and the initiator and co-author of Refuge.
The Gonlehs currently reside in Montgomery, Alabama, where the membership of First Baptist Church has embraced them and helped to meet their needs. Bessie works at the church daycare, while John, an ordained Baptist minister, is a groundskeeper at Tuskegee University. After several years of waiting, John Jr. and Miracle were recently able to join their parents in the United States. |